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Surprising Impact OF Viagra On Love And Relationships

Surprising Impact OF Viagra On Love And Relationships

In 1998, Viagra was first introduced to the world, and it is fair to say that the world has not been the same since. The impact of this medication has been enormous, not just in the narrow area of treating erectile dysfunction (ED) for which it was approved, but also in the way we think of sex and sexuality, and even in the realm of relationships between men and women.
Millions of men in the United States have tried Pfizer’s wonder drug, sildenafil, better known as Viagra, and there are thus millions of women who have also seen its effects on their husbands, boyfriends, and lovers. Many other millions of men and women wonder about whether Viagra can offer a solution for their own sexual and emotional problems or for the problems of their partners. We human beings are sexual animals, after all. And unfortunately, our sex lives are not always the way we want them to be. So it’s no surprise that when sex goes sour, relationships suffer in other ways as well.
Everyone wants to know about Viagra, and many are interested in trying it, whether or not they think they have an erection problem. There are always a good number of Viagra questions, such as, “What happens when a young, healthy man with normal sexual function takes Viagra? ” Or “Can a woman tell during sex that her partner has taken Viagra? ” Or “Is it true that Viagra increases a man’s sex drive? ” Viagra quickly tapped into a set of wishful fantasies that mirrored our culture’s hunger for certainty and the quick fix. Supported by stories that described elderly men restored to such sexual vitality by Viagra that they abandoned their wives in favor of younger women, a conventional wisdom arose that Viagra was a fountain of youth, a sure cure, the real deal. Baby boomers could now look forward to fabulous sex well into their nineties. Men shared Viagra stories with each other at cocktail parties or around the office water cooler.
“All we can say is ‘Wow!
‘” says one man, and other men listening in wonder how their lives might be different if they also took the magic blue pill. Women too have been targeted to confirm Viagra’s ability to create satisfaction and serenity within a relationship where frustration and friction had once been the rule. One of the most successful early Pfizer ads showed a series of couples happily dancing together after Viagra apparently cured the loss of rhythm in their relationship.
Viagra jokes became a staple of comedy acts on late-night television (Have you heard the one about the man who swallowed Viagra, but it stuck in his throat? He wound up with a very stiff neck! ), thus ensuring its place in our cultural lexicon. Viagra tapped into both our fantasies and our embarrassment about sexuality in a way that no other drug had ever done. When, for example, was the last time you heard a joke about a new cholesterol-lowering medication?
Skillful marketing contributed to our perception of Viagra as the pill that put the “man” in “manly. ” Star professional athletes-vigorous men such as baseball’s Most Valuable Player Rafael Palmeiro of the Texas Rangers and NASCAR driver Mark Martin-endorse the medication in widely seen advertisements. Other kinds of athletes use Viagra as well. Hugh Hefner, the aging head of the Playboy empire who is known for his bevy of beautiful blondes, gives Viagra credit for maintaining his pleasure quotient. Rumor has it that he provides bowls of Viagra tablets at his famous parties.
Yes, the drug is enormously powerful, and it can be a lifesaver for many men, but it has also turned a bright spotlight on previously hidden areas of sexuality and relationships. In particular, it forces couples to decide what is real in their relationships and what is not. I have come to see Viagra as providing a window into the psyche of men, and perhaps indirectly into the psyche of women as well, since women are not immune from unduly high expectations regarding the benefits of Viagra and its potential to provide sexual healing.

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Psychoanalysis I – Definitions and Instinct

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Scientific theories appear influenced for the conditions of the social life in the economic aspects, politicians, cultural etc. They are historical products created by concrete men who live its time and contributes or radically modify the development of science. Sigmund Freud (1856-1839) was a Viennese doctor whom changed in an extreme way the imagination about the psychic life.
His contribution is comparable to Karl Max in the comprehension of the historical and social phenomena. Freud dared to place the [mysterious processes] of the psychism, its [obscure regions], that are, the fancies, dreams, the black holes, the interiority of the man, as scientific questions. The systematic inquiry of these problems took Freud to the creation of the Psychoanalysis.
The Term Psychoanalysis is used to design itself as a theory, a method of inquiry and one practical professional. Theory is characterized for a set of wisdom systemized on the functioning of the psychic life. Freud published an extensive letter work, during all his life, telling his discoveries and formulating general laws on the structures and the functioning of psyche human being.
Psychoanalysis (while an inquisitive method) is characterized for the interpretative method, that searches the hidden meaning of what is manifest through action and speech or the imaginary productions, as dreams, deliriums, free associations.
Practical professional mention the form to the psychological treatment (the analysis), that aims at the cure or self-knowledge.
Analytical psychoanalysis is met in the paradoxical position of frequent rejected as a scientific system (at the same time that is accepted for its remarkable contributions for science) gave contributions for some fields, it stimulated the thought and the comment in many areas, until then neglected, of psychology: the meaning of the unconscious factors in determination of the behavior; the general importance of the sex in the normal and abnormal behavior; the importance of the conflict of infancy, the irrational and the emotional one.
Freud himself carried through fine comments during a long life of untiring and daily work and contributed with hypotheses or facts (there isn’t possible to say still which are what) on vast areas of the human behavior. Instinct, to Freud, is the representative of the stimulations.
The psychologists interest to verify new sources of motivation derived from the satisfaction of the instincts and not them somatic processes as source from the instincts, that is the source of comment of the biologist.
Some new originated sources of motivation of the satisfaction of the instincts are the punctions. We do know now (and thanks to Freud) that instinct has biological nature and hereditary and the punction results of a shunting line of the instinct. The sexual punction becomes a shunting line of the instinct, as a baby who receives milk from the mother. After this milk its hunger and therefore it has the instinct to suck, but the contact with the breast also provides it pleasure, that is a shunting line of the instinct. Libido is the deriving energy of the instincts, that is deeply related with the pleasure and resultant affectionate impulses of the punctions. Libido is any instinctive or pulctional energy that has as sources sexual stimulations that appear in the body.
Human being is a system that operates in function of the instincts and punctions in the search of the pleasure.
There are different kinds of instincts as the instinct of death, visas in life and sadism cases. Life instincts lead to the conservation of the person: hunger, headquarters, escape, pain, sex. Instincts of death have as objective a return to a previous state of the substance: self-destruction. Aggression also can be part of the life instinct: competition, fights.
Instincts and punctions, at the most common, cannot find its exempt satisfaction. Therefore, it creates adjustment mechanisms to tolerate the frustration, alliviating or defending individuals from tensions, distress and anxiety. Conflicts generate intense emotional reactions, as anxiety, that is a compound of fear, apprehension and hope – a feeling of real or imaginary threat to the individual security.

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A Great Way To Last Longer In Bed – That 99% Of Men Have Never Even Tried!

A Great Way To Last Longer In Bed – That 99% Of Men Have Never Even Tried!

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Ever heard of arousal step-down techniques?
How about the PC muscle and Kegels?
If you’re like most guys, you probably haven’t. And as such, most men – unaware of the numerous ways they can boost their sexual skill and ‘lasting’ power – regularly produce mediocre performances in bed, leaving themselves disappointed and the women they’re with disillusioned and usually orgasmless. It’s a real shame.
In a poll, 93% of men asked, said they’d like to last longer in bed before ejaculating – but 100% of those men were unaware of how they could achieve such a seemingly impossible feat.
The truth is, it’s not impossible (or even difficult) to maximise your sexual performance and attain complete control over how long you boogie for and generally get on down with the ladies.
So, let’s take a look at one sexual method that’ll allow you massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the choice of when to cum or when to continue.
During sex, most men begin to lose control of themselves (in terms of ejaculation! ) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark – which is usually midway through the first sexual position. And what a letdown ejaculating at this point would be! So, that’s usually the first point at which you’ll use this technique. It involves two steps. The first takes place in your mind – which is the root of many a male’s sexual performance troubles.
1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you’re doing you’ll soon explode) don’t panic! Too many men are pushed over the edge, right to ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel they’re close to orgasm. Panic phrases rush through their heads, like: “Uh oh, I’m gonna blow! ” and “Not again, this is going to be embarrassing. ” Instead of letting these counter-productive thoughts fill your mind and quicken the onset of orgasm, instead calmly say in your head: “Okay, I’m close to ejaculating. Time to use an arousal step-down technique. ” Then move onto step number two.
2. The most sensitive part of your penis is the top of the shaft and especially the head. To decrease its stimulation (without stopping the ‘action’) slowly and deeply thrust into your partner, as far as you can go and she can pleasurably take.
Then, gently grind your hips, wiggling your pubic bone (the hard area above your penis, about 8 inches down from your belly button) on her vagina. To her, this seems and feels like a wonderful stroke variation, which gives her external clitoral stimulation (the number one way to make any woman orgasm).
However, behind the scenes, it’s momentarily decreasing your stimulation, enabling you to last longer. This happens because when you plunge deep into her, your penis enters a wider area of her vagina, which lessens its contact and stimulation.
Then, to cap it off, you grind and wiggle, instead of thrusting in and out, which further decreases the intense sensations of sex. After 30 seconds or so, your arousal levels will have dropped enough for you to restart your thrusting.
By using this technique, you’re able to control your urge to pop without stopping sex and while giving your partner extra sexual stimulation. Now how much better a technique is that for tackling premature ejaculation when compared to what most people consider to be effective techniques? Things like: “Count backward from 100” and “Think of dead puppies! “
Sex, as you well know, is all about fun. Using the 2-step technique above, you can fully enjoy the experience – without the worry of it all being over too soon!

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College Student-Teacher Relationship – Crossing the Line?

College Student-Teacher Relationship – Crossing the Line?

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We’ve all heard of the story of Mary Kay Letorneau, a former middle-school teacher now a registered sex-offender that had a romantic and sexual relationship with one of her students. Since then, several other teachers have been charged due to relations they had with their students. It’s considered taboo for teachers to have any romantic relations with their students, especially in the case of Mary Kay and others because the children involved were just that: children – minors. But is it still taboo if the parties involved are both consenting adults such as in the case of a college student-teacher relationship?

The biggest difference between a college student-teacher relationship and the Mary Kay Letorneau story is that two adults are involved. Most college students are already 18-years of age or older and are no longer minors. At this point, not only are students consenting but also not illegal for their older teachers to have a relationship with. But can a college student-teacher relationship be accepted in society?

No matter the age of the student involved, these types of relationships are still considered taboo in society. Perhaps it is still socially unacceptable because of the fact that the term “student” can always be associated with the relationship. The parents of students put their trust into the school system and faculty to not cross any sort of line against the good welfare of their children. Whether that line involves hitting the students as a form of disciplinary action or having sexual relations with students, parents do not wish to hear that their children were involved in any way.

However, a college student-teacher relationship cannot really be prevented. It can be heavily discouraged but never really prevented. At the ages of late teens to early adulthood, college students tend to be impressionable when faced with the idea of relationships, moreover, a sexual relationship. Perhaps what is even more interesting to them is the idea of something forbidden which can provide excitement, revelation, or adventure.

Society needs to accept that in a college student-teacher relationship it is not only the teacher that is involved but the student as well. The things to really consider here are if ever the relationship between the student and teacher discouragingly affects academics and lifestyle. Otherwise, there’s really no point at efforts to put down these college relationships. Anyone involved in a college student-teacher relationship need not be stoned for having the relationship but rather, treated as a delicate subject to be analyzed and carefully considered.

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When you are Older than 60 and Sex is no Longer an Interest to you

When you are Older than 60 and Sex is no Longer an Interest to you

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Don’t assume that just because you will one day be 60 years of age that sex won’t interest you.
There isn’t going to be a day when you wake up and say that is the last time you will be engaging in such events. There is plenty of talk about those over 60 that pursue an active and healthy sex life. Yet not everyone falls into that category. There are some that are just no longer interested in it.

You do owe it to yourself though to find out why you aren’t interested in having sex. For many it has to do with the loss of a partner due to death. They may have been with that individual for a very long time. They simply can’t imagine themselves becoming intimate with anyone else. This is understandable and not something that should be viewed as out of the ordinary.

There is no set time frame for a person to recover from such events. Eventually you may feel like you are ready to see someone new. It may be within the year or several years down the road. Listen to your own feelings and follow your heart. If you are struggling to let go of the past, professional counseling may be something you can benefit from.

There are those who never really enjoyed sex in the first place. They continued to do it because they felt it was expected from them. They may have wanted to have children or just to keep the peace with their spouse. They may be at a point in their life where they just don’t feel that sex is that important anymore. They also aren’t going to compromise their stand on it for anyone else any longer.

Some individuals are very concerned about their physical appearance. They go to great lengths as they get older to look their very best. They chose their clothing very carefully so they can accent their good qualities and hide their flaws. So they aren’t about to show someone what they look like naked.

Medical issues are one of the main reasons why some people over the age of 60 just don’t find sex to be of interest. They may be very ill and it is a fight daily to go about their normal activities. Others find they have a very low libido due to their medical problems or even as a side effect of their medications. Therefore the issue of sex just isn’t one that matters a great deal to them.

Likewise, if they have a partner who is suffering from various medical problems they may find that sex doesn’t matter. They are more concerned with helping their partner to remain as comfortable as they possibly can. It takes tremendous strength to help someone with daily medical problems. It can be physically and mentally draining as well. Yet at the end of the day they are just thankful to continue having more time to share with that person.

When you are older than 60 and sex is no longer an interest to you, that is your own concern. You need to make sure you are truly happy with that decision though. If you find you are depressed about it or long for some type of sexual activity you need to see a doctor. There can be many reasons why a person isn’t able to enjoy sex as they get older. There are numerous solutions that can be offered as well. If you aren’t interested in them though you can still have wonderful and meaningful relationships.

You will just have to find a partner who isn’t interested in sex either. Otherwise that different between the two of you is going to end up creating a great deal of tension. As long as both of you are fine with only being companions then it can work well for you. Sex isn’t something anyone should feel pressured into at any age.